Dude... I even offered to teach you to drive a manual car. However, I find your defeatist attitude typical. Being a natural defeatist is a much bigger problem than not being able to drive a manual car.

Evidently you do care, because otherwise you otherwise you wouldn't get so defensive about it.

Finally, "I'm lazy" is a really crap excuse, especially when you haven't seem to have given it a serious effort, and have had offers of help. Had you said "I don't want one" that would have been a different matter.